Dancer Archive
Thread: retraining the crowds
Personally I do hope the person behind the BoT avatar is ok because it is so very unlike her. She’s been parked in MO day in day out, rain and shine for a long time. And regardless how I feel about her play style I would never wish no ill on anyone.
However listening to some talk resulting of this was rather amusing.
Till the moment I was asked by one of my regular customers to meet him in MO for buffs.
Hood pulled low and no title showing I snucked in the back room of the cantina to buff him.
The music buff went well but about halfway through the dance someone walked in and I was "busted".
So I ended up staying for over an hour.
Ikewe you are so correct.
Trying to work in that place ATK does takes a patience of a Saint.
Over all it was very hmmm "educational".
I did feel like a broken record constantly repeating: of course I will buff you if you need it but we don’t have to be grouped for it just make sure you are /watching-/listening to me.
However two separate people made my stay there short because I didn’t want to loose my cool.
One person after getting his dance and music buff called me a rebel scum and announced my buffs were lame and not worth paying for.
Well I know for a fact he got a full buff and I’m sorry I can’t afford no attachments so only offer regular music and 105% dance.
Hell even the leotard I wear was a gift from a very kind customer who had a life-time of free buffs from me just because he has always been nice to me.
Second incident was a person who actually didn’t get buffed at all. He was spamming me with /invites as if they were going out of style while the whole time I was trying to explain to him there is no need for us to group.
Well, he got mad and just walked away but for next 30 minutes proceeded in sending me hate tells about what b**** I am and how I don’t know what the hell I’m doing, how he was getting mind buffs for ever so it’s not my place to tell him how and how ignorant I was and hmmm oh yeah how he will make sure my days were numbered lol. He may have said more but by then he was on my ignore list.
Like everyone else has pointed out, it will take a lot of patience on out part to reeducate the public. But unless they are rude to me I do not hold their not knowing against them.
But I do have to say DarkYoda’s way of doing it does have it’s merits too.
Do you by any chance give wiping classes so we don’t tire to fast? *evilgrin*
Deli'ah
It is the home of the solo group and has been home to a robot vendor for months. Only time will tell how those players will now cope. Perhaps we will see them wandering aimlessly in the wilds, pulling their hair and ranting about needing an invite.
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OMG I busted laughing so hard I spilled my coffee and oops there a coworker looking at me strangely.
But that’s a good one hehehe.
Deli'ah
Never.
Now, I'm an MCH as well as dancer, so sometimes I just whip out the Mantigrue Screecher and people figure not to mess with me because I'm obviously in a bad mood. But most of the time I use my cute little rasp. Low level - I've gotten quite a few for other people who aren't CH.
I HIGHLY recommend you ask a favor of your favorite CH and see if s/he will get you one. The light blue and white ones are missionable on Talus, the red ones are wanderers in the Agrilat Swamp...forgot where the darker blue ones come from. Most people like the light blue ones best...
That clears up the silent group invites. For me that let me relax quite a bit and focus on dealing with the other issues.
The downside of course is that a lot of people will see that you are grouped and will either do the "invite to [dancer]" or will leave without saying anything.
I usually ignore "invite to ent group" or "invite to dance group" spam or tell people they will get an invite to the dance group when they start dancing. But I'm mean like that. If someone says "invite to Doriana" it depends on my mood. If I'm not worn down yet I will generally /frown the first time, and catiously ignore. Surprisingly that has cleared up a good part of it because they realize I'm ATK and then proceed to "kiss my ass" by way of saying "can I please get a buff?" If I've been there buffing and I'm to the point where I'm stressed out, I've been known to get quite upset.
I guess I take a "tough love" viewpoint. I certainly don't want to turn people away, my whole point of being in a cantina is helping people since I can /startdance anywhere. But I view it as a two way street -- they have to be at least polite or neutral to earn getting buffed. I'm not talking chatty, I'm not talking gushing with happy sentiments.. I'm talking "Hey can I get a buff please?" instead of "invite." I've been told this is an unreasonable demand and that it's "people like me" with our "attitude problems" that drive people to bots, but I don't see how treating me like a person isntead of an NPC and asking instead of demanding is that onerous. So when I can enforce it, people who aren't polite don't get buffs. They generally get heals, because I don't toss around /deny lightly. But treat me like an NPC and I'll act like one -- an NPC can't invite you to their group or do a /setperformance.
I've had some success with this in player city cantinas. Regulars learned fairly quick that I wasn't going to respond and honestly at least a few of them "woke up" when they realized just how upset the situation makes live people and have been a lot better to not only me but other people as well. But I hang out in a player city with a (generally) mature player base for regulars. I don't know if this method will work on the l33t t33nz grinding jedi out of the MO. Quite honestly I've not been able to find a populated NPC cantina without a bot in it. (Theed is "clean" right now but Theed and Coronet both have dedicated Hotel Bots so it's not "populated" in the sense of people coming there to find a buff)
Ikewe wrote:
It is the home of the solo group and has been home to a robot vendor for months. Only time will tell how those players will now cope. Perhaps we will see them wandering aimlessly in the wilds, pulling their hair and ranting about needing an invite.
Maybe they'll ask the Dark Jedi Masters for invites....
Ikewe wrote:
It just seems to be the Mining Outpost on my server that attracts the terminally rude. That can't just be coincidence. It is the home of the solo group and has been home to a robot vendor for months. Only time will tell how those players will now cope. Perhaps we will see them wandering aimlessly in the wilds, pulling their hair and ranting about needing an invite.
Ikewe, Master Dancer Shadowfire
LOL well I guess I'm lucky on Corbantis. Yes there are some overly rude ones, like the d00d that tried to ruin our starport performance Saturday, but for the most part players do respond decently when I interact. Maybe its me, I'm not a long time entertainer so maybe I'm not as frustrated. Either way the experience is, for the most part, enjoyable and I wouldn't trade it for anything else in this game. Some of my guild mates wonder about me but they are supportive and with Imaji dancing with me there isn't a better place to be. So I guess it's a combination of a server that hasn't gone as far down the buff bot track and aless jadedview of things.
I know I don't get nearly as many out right rude people as others seem to get so Corbantis still has hope. ![]()
picklesSW wrote:
Anyone know where Oh-Orb performs?
I want to know too! I'm DYING to see that performance!!