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Thread: Question for fellow tailors
I'm just spiteful because if a guild kicked me out arbitrarily, I would never come back, unless those responsible were gone, preferably (in-game) killed.
Akaara wrote:
NJ62 wrote:
Take some time to decide whether you really want to go back. Many people choose not to join a PA. You shouldn't have to admit you were wrong and grovel, and promise to do better next time if it wasn't your fault in the first place.
I'm just spiteful because if a guild kicked me out arbitrarily, I would never come back, unless those responsible were gone, preferably (in-game) killed.
LOL That is what I was thinking... but I don't wanna move all my stuff!
Well if you're on good terms with the player city (and it depends how many guilds are in your player city) there is no reason to move your stuff if you choose not to rejoin.
There are always options! Even if the options include recruiting a few friends on a Saturday to bite the bullet and move your stuff.
Message Edited by Gooney on 01-20-2005 11:01 AM
- Choosing a guild (or not) in SWG seems to be the key to the gaming fun.
If you like to live the lufe as "lone wolf", do so, if you hunger for the sozial aspectes a guild may provide, choose wisely. - I used to hang around several player cities before i decided to offer my services to that guild
- As a tailor, I am much more satisfied with a guild, which isnt too much into "bigger-is-better" hunting and/or PVP
- Our guild on the other hand got too few hunters though ... That's why my 2. toon took up a combat profession
My saying is: Love it, change it or leave it.
Recreational time is scarce to mess around with guildies you dont like. There are others out there, maybe even on another server. I changed my server once, because the old one was full of "gimme-itemz"-kids (no, I wont state the name of that galaxy)
Best wishes and a /thumbsup from
Ipita
FloridianJen wrote:
Wow, Chiana *hugs you* so sorry to hear that happened to you my friendIn my guild I've been around long around enough that I have quite a collection of hides, resources and components. I've always provided for myself and never really expect anything from others in my guild. It seems like that has always backfired on me...lol.. because we are all such good friends that they are always giving me things anyways...hehe Whether if I'm looking for a very specific resource, or specific hide or some sort of component that may be dropping, there is always someone that will look to see if they have it or keep their eyes open for me. Our guild just tries to help eachother out the best we can
*grins* I got lucky...
Actually I am very self sufficient as well except the BE tissues and the special loot dropped resources for the village quests. Much of what I asked for was basically coming from the attitude that it is better to ask my guild-mates than look outside the guild.
Several members of the guild were really po'ed when they saw what had happened and all came to my support. I doubt I will rejoin only because if I can't be myself and feel comfortable then I don't want to be with them. I am who I am... take it or leave it.
Akaara wrote:
What do you bring to your PA to make a difference? I was removed from my PA so quickly that my head is spinning. They said I was always asking for things in guild chat. If I was, I didn't realize it. I would do anything within my limited abilities to do anything for them but I just couldn't do much, most of them have several accounts, share accounts and so forth. I couldn't join in group hunts or find eggs in lairs because I don't have any combat skills.
So, now that I am in shock and quite sad, what do you other tailors bring to your PA to make it better?? Obviously I did something wrong!
/comfort
wow - I can't imagine!
my tailor is in a FABULOUS guild on Tarquinas - a quirky conglomeration of mostly entertainers and crafters, mostly roleplayers. Everyone is helpful. We have like 4 master tailors in the guild (one girl only makes black clothing! too cool) and yet i still seem to do buisiness. People share resources, share ideas. This is my idea of a guild. I am so sorry this happened to you. But don't lose hope - not all guilds are like that I can assure you!
Akaara wrote:I am who I am... take it or leave it.
*bows to you* A legacy in my book
You can't please everyone, no matter how nice, polite, and accomodating you are. And I still maintain my original thought that adults will sit down with you and explain that they don't like something rather than booting you out and then telling you why. (Whether they are irrational in their dislike is a separate issue from the duty to tell you.)
Imagine if your boss at work fired you because you had left your dirty coffee mug in the break area every day and it got on her last nerve. You'd think it was ridiculous because she should have told you about the mug. If she had told you, you would have removed it. And, which I think is passive-aggressive, your boss allowed you to continue to leave your coffee mug out, and annoy her every day, because then in firing you she could say "well Akaara always leaves out her coffee mug, I mean every frickin day" instead of giving you a chance for correction. Her silence is intentionally sabotaging you.
You see why this is lame? If you go back, don't feel that you have to sit around biting your nails, secretly afraid to do something, or continually do something, that pisses off someone. If it's not in the guild rules, nobody tells you about it, and it's not something utterly smacktardish, how are you supposed to know what is "good" and what is "bad"?
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