Dancer Archive
Thread: wow, i never realized untill yesterday
Stryider wrote:
May i defend the men in the world? I dont mean to sound rude, but not all men are that way. I know you didnt say that all men are that way, but see you seem to think alot are. I really suppose it depends on where you live in the world. See i live in cali, and there are share of men who are that way, and there are tons of them who dont. I do agree that way to many are so rude like that, but please do remember that there are those of us men who try to keep the others in line.Men need to treat women like humans, and not toys or objects. I am sorry about the way that we generally act, but keep in mind that there are those who do our best to stop this. I sincerely apologize for anything that we do, and you have my word that i will continue to do my best to the keep the men that i come in contact with in line. As for how entertainers aretreated, you are right, they are severly abused, and not ever payed enough. Its not just the women either, yes i know that the women have to deal with the stupidity of men, but those men who r not like the rest, and stick up for women then are shunned. I had a case where the whole city of bestine refused to interact withme do to the fact that this one group of people seemed to be in charge, and i wouldnt allow them to humiliate a few people se**ually. Sadly the CSR people do nothing. But whatcan we do, but stick it out.
I'm sorry butI don'tSEEM to think that alot of men are that way.I know it. I'm glad there are a few men like you who help out but you're rare. I have never seen it myself,however. CSR people are just like rl people. Hardly anybody cares except for those who are being bothered. That's why I'm going pistoleer too. So I can duel anyone who bothers me. Unfortunately, I'm not strong enough to yet, but soon I will be.
No, not every guy is like this. There are just very few nice ones. I mean genuinly nice. Not nice to your face and then talk about you in an inappropriate way after to his buddies.
I'm sorry you were hurt for sticking up for someone. That was pathetic. I honestly wish there were more like you. Please don't ever change.![]()
Stryider wrote:
Luck is exactly what i need, and a lot of time too. I was just wonderin what all you people thought of me, since you have started to see me postin a whole lot lately. ill be sure to keep you informed
Well, I don't know about anyone else but I've only got one small little problem with you...
That red text is a bit hard on the eyes.
Other than that.. No problems here.
But back on topic... Most men I've seen that dance are pretty nice. In fact.. The men that are the biggest problem are a problem to any dancer, not just the women. But I too have experience cases of being shunned just because I was a man.
My personal philosophy is to treat people like people. Man, woman, it doesn't make a difference. How they speak, how they act, how they try and present themselves, that's what matters to me. I just wish more people were like that. Of both genders.
Dark_Paradox wrote:
Wow, I got qouted fairly often. ANd I also live in Cali, and yes there are jerks but alot of us keep other guys in line... I myself tend to do that, I believe in honor towards a lady and chilvary, respect and what not. I am no fool. Even though I may at times flirt and be soemwhat of a womanizer I do it all in good fun, and dont take it to the length in which I'll hurt someone, emotionaly etc. But what these guys do both irl and in-game is just wrong. So after I finish making my character on Bloodfin and TC if a dancer needs a bouncer I will glady do so, no quesitons asked...
Feel free to come to Starsider!! I pay well! hehe. Friendly flirting is ok. I had one guy 'gently kiss me on the lips', I slapped him and we both laughed. Not a big deal. It's the other really crude ones that kill it and infuriate me. I have met only one guy that believes in chivalry and he was so gentlemanly with his bows and kisses on the hand only and very polite way of talking to me, I almost didn't believe it was true. I kept waiting for the invite to cyber! Needless to say that never happened, thank God. I really wish there were more guys around like that. If guys were more like that, there would be a lot fewer lonley ones!
CaptainStormy wrote:
There are a few guys like that around. lol, i know of atleast one on naritus
as a matter of fact the story you wrote about that guy above is almost exactly how i meet my first in game wife. which she then cheated on me and left me but thats a whole diffrent story.
on my server boards a friend of mine posted a thread about respect twoards women, after someone did something inapproprate to his wife while she was LD thats very much the same as this topic, its quite sad really.
Dark_Paradox wrote:
Hell, I'll go Starsider, that is if you dont mind a noob looking character following you around! Lol, send me your name and I'll help out! I'll start my dream character of Fencer/Combat Medic on that server....
Hhhmmm. The last time a cm was around me he triple incapped me. Not sure about this
lol
My name is in my sig and there's lots of us that would like your help,probably. Most of the trouble seems to be in Coronet and Theed. A bit on Dath but not too much there. As far as my xp goes anyway.
Maybe I'll see ya soon!