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Thread: Erotic Dance Guide Part Three
Bulbous - Two things.
1) People asked for this information. Repeatedly. Flawed even solicited approval before embarking on this topic and got at least a minimal vote of approval. I agree that it should have been all in one thread,but I don't see that it's counts as forum spam.
2) Telling someone that they've constructed an "elaborate egomaniacal fantasy" and recommending that they get personal counseling IS an insult. Playing armchair psychiatrist ("classic cry for attention") IS a way of dissing a person. This concern for her well-being you speak of (implication being that there's something wrong with her for you to be concerned about) is so entwined with your obvious annoyance as to render it unbelievable.
If you have a complaint about the topic, then complain about the topic. Getting personal about the person posting doesn't convert anyone to your cause. Better to take it to private email and deal with it that way.
Personally, I've no opinion one way or another about the whole erotic dance thing. I have dropped in on Flawed's place of business and found that she's well-known and reasonably well-respected, if considered a bit bossy by some. Doesn't sound egomaniacal to me. Just as you can't claim paranoia if "they" really ARE after you, you can't really be accused of havinga swelled head if everyone really does love you. Besides, fantasy lives are what RPG's are all about, I'd say.
Don't let the door hit ya on the way out, Bulbous.
Plenty of dancers have asked for this kind of thread, and she did a terrific job.
An insult is an insult anyway you slice it, doing your best to word it like a legit complaint isn't fooling anyone.
I'm afraid I cannot help myself..
Bulbous, how you can make a "clinical analysis of [her] psyche" based on three posts conducted over an internet forum is beyond me. Even profession psychologists and psychiatrists would be unable to make that claim, of which I doubt you are either. In any case, calling Flawed's dissection of SWG Erotic Dancing a cry for help because she posts on it and other subjects regularly a "cry for attention" is absurd. This is information that other dancers on the forum have requested, and she has been nice enough to acquiesce. If you really want to make a study of Flawed's personality, get a doctorate in clinical psychology (which will take about eight years, give or take a few), find out her real name (which she will never give you) and conduct sessions with her once a week for a month. Maybe then you can make that kind of claim. Stop practicing your amateur psychology and analyze yourself.
And trust me, after having received therapy and being schooled in therapy techniques, I'm not just making that up.
Ania'dlin
Theed, Naboo
Ahazi
I am sorry that you have taken any dissention on your posts as "insults", when in fact, none have been made. What I have done is made a clinical analysis of your psyche based on yourMANY posts on the subject (now, a fourth thread on this very topic has sprung up) and posted my concern as to the status of your mental health. I am not calling you crazy, sleazy or anything else negative. I indicated that my post was driven out of concern, not of contempt. At no time did I make a personal attack; your calling it as such cannot get me to stop objecting to your forum spam.
Actually, saying bluntly that she needs professional counselling is over the top -- it's an insult that would get you thrown off most boards.
FD is NOT spamming the board. Your silly insistence is only evidence that you have not read what she's said, or appreciate the clear differences in topic of her 3 posts. It is a subject that cannot possibly be covered in one header - dividing it the way she did allows us to discuss the details of each topic.
Now. Since you either have reading comprehension problems or a seriously disturbed need to impose YOUR narrow-minded morality on other people, maybe you would fit in better somewhere else. Your post is not constructive and has derailed what many of us consider a valid, interesting topic.
So take a hint and take a hike.