Dancer Archive
Thread: Helping hands.. or lack there of.
Message Edited by Oqua on 09-25-2004 07:34 AM
therealzizz wrote:
I am going to step up and say I completely agree with you. We can not continue to bash the non-entertaining community., or the future entertaining community. What I dont understand is when macros themselves became so evil. I personally came to this board for every single macro I have ever used. I remember when dancers were more than happy to share thier macros for buffing and performing. This is my first online game ever, and if it wasnt for these forums I would not of had a clue as to what to do. These boards have gone from people helping each other to "GET A ROPE!!" Yes, there are posts that intentionally bait . But why take the bait? Ignore them ..is it that hard? Consider the source and let it go.
Yes, I dont like buffbots either. Im not going to let them ruin my game though. Every profession in this game has to deal with something they dont like. You can either keep harping on it and let it ruin your fun, or you can just learn what the best way to work around it is. The constant complaints of how someone else is destroying your profession are overshadowing
the real problems.(new content, broken dances, etc..)
So, thank you Saera, for stepping up first and stating what needed to be said. I see new players constantly and its time we
show them the hospitality that was shown to us when we first started.
zizz
/agree I rarely read the dancerboards anymore, too much anger.I have a place I go every day to listen to people bicker whereI try to bring peace. It's called work. ![]()
Sorry, but I won't let that happen.
therealzizz wrote:What I dont understand is when macros themselves became so evil. I personally came to this board for every single macro I have ever used. I remember when dancers were more than happy to share thier macros for buffing and performing. This is my first online game ever, and if it wasnt for these forums I would not of had a clue as to what to do. These boards have gone from people helping each other to "GET A ROPE!!"
I can venture a guess on how this happened.
I'll use an analogy.
Jimmy invented the gun. Wow, what a great invention, it let him kill his dinner so much more easily! He wanted to share this great gift, and word spread, so when anyone came to ask for a gun, he'd make one and hand it to them. And the people were killing their dinners more easily as well.
Then one day, he handed the gun to someone, and that person shot him in the foot. Ow! That wasn't very nice, and not great thanks for helping the guy out. But Jimmy decided maybe this one person was just weird, and continued to hand out guns after a short visit to the hospital.
Then as the days passed, more and more people would shoot him in the foot when he gave them a gun. Jimmy was coming into more and more pain for trying to help people out. He then became very suspicious of people coming to ask for a gun, since he thought the first thing they would do would be to shoot him in the foot. But even when he was very careful about whom he gave a gun to, he still got shot. Finally, he got tired of this gun business, and when someone would come asking for a gun, he'd shoot them in the foot instead.
After seeing people use the macros we created to help to turn around and create buffbots so often, we got suspicious. Some of us shoot the people looking for these macros in the foot. It kind of sucks.
Kitachiira wrote:
The original poster is right. There is way too much hate on this board. I understand the anger entertainers have with regards to bots. I share that sentiment. However I don't post here much anymore either because ofall the negativity.It gets depressing to see the arguing with neither side really willing to see the others point of view or so it seems anyway. I know a few other people who have stopped posting here for the same.
I know that's why the afk/bot thread was made but I've only read the first page or 2 and won't read anymore. I really don't see the point. It's just the same old arguments with hardly anyone agreeing.
Well, ok, maybe you are sort of missing the point of the Sticky still. If you are so upset by the "same old arguments" that it is keeping you away from the forum, you shouldn't go read that thread. The whole point of making it its own "Focus Thread" was so it could be skipped by people who didn't want to read it anymore.
You don't like the fight over it, stay out of that thread. Don't read it, don't post in it, just ignore it and carry on in other threads.
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As to this post topic. Yes, I always prefer us to be nice. I was actually supportive of second account Private Support Dancer chars in the thread that brought this on. Not that it mattered, dude didn't even seem to read it. *shrug* I don't like that so many people feel the need to have a Dancer on their second account, but I think that just screams that we need help as an Active Live Main Prof.
On the other hand, "peer pressure" is supposed to be used to discourage AFK Entertaining (or anything else Entertainers don't like other Entertainers doing, spam, botting, dating services, whatever). I've read it and heard it straight from the Devs. I personally do not like this. I don't like counting on this. I don't like the snobbinessthat I think it breeds. Most importantly I think it is a blowoff and shows a lack of interest in finding real design solutions that other non-Social Profs would be offered.
I also think it doesn't work when the people who are doing/wanting/needing these things do not care a fig about being part of the Ent Community and we don't merge with the Communities they are in, so we have no means to impose this type of pressure.
It worked for me when I was new. I most likely would have AFK Leveled my first time up at least sometimes because it does make more sense for xp gain. It is encouraged by the game. I started reading the boards and talking to other Dancers in game though and heard their complaints about it. Even though it was still too early in my Dancing Career to really get what they were saying, the fact that it was so looked down upon by the people I wanted to be playing with made me decide not to do it.
That was a long time ago though.
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Anyway, yeah. Try to be nice. I flinch when I read that someone wants to skip us and "go make coffee" while they are doing it, it just makes us look silly and shows a real lack of respect for our role in the game, but I do understand what is leading people to do this and I hope that those issues will be resolved at some point and all of us will be improved for it.
Until then, everybody just try to be as nice as you can be and educate the public on Dancer issues as sweetly as you can stomach. ![]()
If you have to freak out and snub someone, just don't break any forum rules and really try to weigh out in your mind before you post it if it will help your cause in the end or just further add to the frustrations on both sides of the issue. That's all any of us can do if we choose to use the "peer pressure" method. I'd suggest using it sparingly, but, you know, you're all grown enough to be playing the game so it's not like I can really make you do anything. ![]()