Tailor Archive

Thread: How do you get time for yourself?

TwizAmber
Fri Aug 29, 2003 1:28 pm
#14

I usually put on the AFK sign, where l wrote that l didn't take any more orders and needed to relax. The customers accepted that and mailed me instead.



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Kjeldor33
Fri Aug 29, 2003 2:30 pm
#15

/cry for Nalinya.

Thats why ive taken time off before i hit master tailor to go do other stuff...though i have such poor combat skills, i usually just get frustrated and make more clothes....its a vicious cycle.



Kjeldor
Master Architect/Novice Pistoleer of Lowca
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Retired Master Smuggler/BH of Valcyn
MasterJian
Fri Aug 29, 2003 3:04 pm
#16

/hug Nalinya

I think this will improve as more Master Tailors surface.. I am based in Nashal, and I just got Master Tailor, and yes, I'm starting to get pretty swamped with orders, but I know it's nothing compared to what it's like on the populated planets.. /giggle.. Anyone on Valcyln with too many customers feel free to send some my way, I'm not overworked just yet..

seki
Master Tailor of Nashal



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Martingale
Fri Aug 29, 2003 9:54 pm
#17

This is why I don't tell people that I'm a master tailor. I just like to make clothes for myself and spend the rest of my time hunting. So I leave my Novice Sharpshooter tag up and make my character anon. If any of my friends refer people to me, I just refer them to another tailor.


I know this is not the solution for most of you. But I had been wondering if I should start up a business, and after seeing these posts, I don't think I will.




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FOO007
Sat Aug 30, 2003 12:02 am
#18




donnah42 wrote:

This is something that's really gotten to me lately, too.


But how do you handle those people who are nice, but just won't leave you alone? I'm not talking about folks with clothing requests, I'm talking about those customers who just want to chat all the time. It's a little inconvenient when I'm juggling orders, and it's even kind of an intrusion on my down-time. Maybe it's just me, but I'm really picky about who I have long, drawn-out chats with every time I log on. Sometimes it's nice, but I'm just not always in the mood for socializing with strangers when I'm trying to do something else.


Most of my good RL friends play this game, and they live across thecountry so we actually use our PA chat to keep up. So even when I'm not working on orders, I'm chatting with my friends and the one guy we met in-game that we kind of adopted. Obviously I don't mind the quick checking in "hey, what's up" type tells, I love hearing from people. But I have 3 customers who won't leave me alone. They try to chat with me the entire time we're on together. I feel rude if I just ignore them, so I try to stick to short replies, reply very slowly, and then explain to them how busy I am at the moment. Sometimes it works, but sometimes they'll just reply to me a few minutes later to check and see if I'm free yet. It's not that I don't like those guys, they're all really nice and I enjoy seeing them from time to time. But they're just so... needy. And it's wearing me out!





It's all about boundaries. If someone's a customer, then they should realise that this is your business and time spent talking to them is time you're not making money. It should be a treat, not a prerequisite. For those that you consider friends, they should be able to accept the fact that you've got things to do. Yes, it's a game, but you have to explain to them that you need time and space to do your job effectively. I doubt anyone would mind in real life if you said, "I'm at work right now, I'll call you back later."


And finally: If you've got a massive backlog of orders, just start referring to other Tailors. Honestly, if you've got that many orders, you're not hurting for money.


Of course, you just deal with the jerks any way you see fit. I usually briefly engage in some verbal sparring with a few witty retorts, then send them on their way. If that doesn't work /ignore does wonders.

s7ryk3r
Sat Aug 30, 2003 12:48 am
#19

I wish I had that problem..


Right now, its difficult to find people to buy my wares.. perhaps I need to move closer to town....

Fayfe
Sat Aug 30, 2003 4:16 am
#20

Learning to say no works wonders


Yes you may lose some business but the few weeks up to Master and into I was swamped with orders/tells. Logging on forhours at a time and not even leaving my store was just not my cup of tea, so I not limit my crafting time so it suit me. I do orders and restocking during the day and at night I hit the dance floor! I leave all my crafting things at home and most people are learning that unless I am in my shop I wont be dropping everything to craft. There are exceptions and many times I have broken my rule and hopped back home to do a fitting but only when I feel like it..on my terms.


Tailoring is a great profession but it is time consuming and if your not careful can feel like a chore, Iam starting to enjoy myself more now and still running a successful business.

Akaara
Sat Aug 30, 2003 4:31 am
#21

Thanks for your help! Unfortunately going anon and removing my tag really wouldn't fool anyone on my server


I made a nice little afk note that I use now.


My only fear is that no one will come back if I turn them away... which is why I hardly ever say no.


hugs,





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JEDI ELDERCL 90

Sying ~ Master Entertainer

Nikeesha YMaster Tailor

Daelite
Sat Aug 30, 2003 4:51 am
#22

Chiana,



If they love your work, your prices and your attitude they will come back hun...they will understand you need a life outside of crafting. It's alot of work gathering resources and making your way up that ladder, and if you don't take breaks when you need them you will get burned out totally. So let them know you NEED a break, if they can't handle it they will go elsewhere but others will stick with ya until you are ready to craft more.



Good luck to ya!





KI'ki
Daou
Sat Aug 30, 2003 5:04 am
#23

I don't get this alot, unless I am in a cantina *boggle* so I steer clear of them and put my shop outside the lake retreat =p




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Faife
Sat Aug 30, 2003 11:50 am
#24

I NEED to go on vacation for a day, it's been insane again lately for me, since I've opened my second shop.


I was one of the first 5 or 6 master tailors on Eclipse so I'm pretty well known on my server.


Last time I took a vacation I changed my AFK to have my store location and said I am on another planet killing small anmials and can not reply at this time, if you would like to place an order please mail me item/color and I will place it on my vendor when I get back.


Then I just didnt reply to anyone I didnt want to, or if I did it was to say sorry Im fighting on Lok right now I cant talk, mail me if you have an order please.


And my afk was so big it would fill their whole spatial chat box so they would give up pretty quick muahaha










Karinna ~ Adorable ~ Bria
Karissa ~More Adorable ~ Bria

MrPsycohed
Sun Aug 31, 2003 3:20 am
#25

Set up an AFK message. That can filter out a lot of people after the first tell.

Create a chat box that doesn't have Instant Messages turned on.

And my personaly favorite:

/r I'm very busy right now. If it's important, mail me, if not, shoo!

Got that one on a macro hotkey so I can hit it while in combat.




Connrad "Tailorman" Mandragore, wandering Master Vagabond of Bria. Fnord.


"As you get older, you'll learn that people don't mean to be obnoxious, it's just that they're all screwed up inside." -Joel Hodgeson
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