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Thread: OT: I need the insights and thoughts of females...
kirah_ashlin wrote:
LOL - figures I'd finally decide to respond and you beat me with apost about your newest conquests . . .
) that much of what was discussed ingame simply was not present. There were alot of misunderstandings and false conceptions of reality (on several levels, by several people. 
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gera wrote:
Girls do love, but they never fall in love... All imitation
Oooooh . . . . you are SO lucky I'm too tired to respond to THAT! LOL!
RooksBiH wrote:
There's only one way to get out of the "friends" zone: Flip the jealousy switch.
1. Tell her that you're going to start a "self-improvement" plan because you want a girlfriend.
She already knows I have girlfriends, and has even filed my nails to help avoid potential scratching. O_o
2. Start working out and getting in shape. Let her improve your wardrobe and pick out things that look good on you. Have her play as big a role in your self-improvement plan as possible.
Already work out and am in decent shape. She's already offeredto help me find some clothes that she thinks I'll look "hot" in.
(She's pointed me in the right direction a few times already.)
3. Start going out and having fun with other women. The more fun you have, the better this will work.
Read above.
4. She will feel responsible for your scoring with other women, leading to regret. Eventually, she will be writhing with jealousy.
I hope this is the next step...
First, *hugs* to Til again. I really don't think being told a girl needs time to think means it's never going to happen. I know that's not true. My man and I were friends who snuggled on the couch to watch movies together, play flirted, went out together all the time, but it never took off until much later when we were both at Ga Tech and I took the flirting up a notch. He basically laid it on the line for me and said pretty much what you told this girl. He said he couldn't handle us just being like that any more and he wanted me to be his.
I freaked out, lol. I just needed some time to sort it out. We hooked up shortly after his talk with me because my only option was to be his girlfriend if I wanted him in my life. It was a fair request and I understood it. Of course I gave in because I couldn't stand to be with out him at all, so I had to take his terms. I still had a really hard time with it though. I was young and I really liked dating. 
In the end, I wanted him more though.
We had a few break ups after that, but not many. Everyone who knows us says we have one of the best marriages (another thing I had to be talked into ) they've ever seen. I truly love him and can't imagine my life with out him and don't even want to.
That's bull. My man rocks my world. He makes me melt. I like men a lot and I love flirting, I never really planned on doing the whole wifey bit. Only being madly in love could make me throw out all of my personal hang ups like I have for him. I have loved him for fourteen years, but I have been in love with him for ten of those years now. I keep waiting for it to fade to something more mild, but it hasn't. I crave him like a habit, that can't be imitated. I'm just in love.
gera wrote:
Girls do love, but they never fall in love... All imitation
Eerif wrote:Now lets just think about this logically and come up with a mathematical answer....First we state that girls require time and money.
Girls = Time x Money
As we all know, "time is money."
Time = Money
Therefore:Girls = Money x Money = (Money ^ 2)
And because "money is the root of all evil":Money = (Evil ^ 1/2)
It follows:Girls = (Evil ^ 1/2) ^ 2
And we can thus conclude that:Girls = Evil
technically, wouldn't "girls require time and money" only imply "girls = time + money"? so girls are only a little evil
... and what's wrong with being a bit evil?
Panthu wrote:
...That's bull. My man rocks my world. He makes me melt. I like men a lot and I love flirting, I never really planned on doing the whole wifey bit. Only being madly in love could make me throw out all of my personal hang ups like I have for him. I have loved him for fourteen years, but I have been in love with him for ten of those years now. I keep waiting for it to fade to something more mild, but it hasn't. I crave him like a habit, that can't be imitated. I'm just in love.
gera wrote:Girls do love, but they never fall in love... All imitation
you and D are so cute
as for gera, I think it's just best to leave his statement alone. we all know better
Message Edited by Pappi on 02-13-2005 02:06 PM
Pappi wrote:
Panthu wrote:
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That's bull. My man rocks my world. He makes me melt. I like men a lot and I love flirting, I never really planned on doing the whole wifey bit. Only being madly in love could make me throw out all of my personal hang ups like I have for him. I have loved him for fourteen years, but I have been in love with him for ten of those years now. I keep waiting for it to fade to something more mild, but it hasn't. I crave him like a habit, that can't be imitated. I'm just in love.
gera wrote:
Girls do love, but they never fall in love... All imitation
you and D are so cute
as for gera, I think it's just best to leave his statement alone. we all know better
Message Edited by Pappi on 02-13-2005 02:06 PM
Yeah agree with you here, it is like blasting nuke that US own produced in US
Panthu wrote:
That's bull. My man rocks my world. He makes me melt. I like men a lot and I love flirting, I never really planned on doing the whole wifey bit. Only being madly in love could make me throw out all of my personal hang ups like I have for him. I have loved him for fourteen years, but I have been in love with him for ten of those years now. I keep waiting for it to fade to something more mild, but it hasn't. I crave him like a habit, that can't be imitated. I'm just in love.
Eerif wrote:
Now lets just think about this logically and come up with a mathematical answer....
First we state that girls require time and money.
Girls = Time x Money
As we all know, "time is money."
Time = Money
Therefore:
Girls = Money x Money = (Money ^ 2)
And because "money is the root of all evil":
Money = (Evil ^ 1/2)
It follows:
Girls = (Evil ^ 1/2) ^ 2
And we can thus conclude that:
Girls = Evil
So harsh Supa Chef!
and 99.9% of the time....so true!
1. Tell her that you're going to start a "self-improvement" plan because you want a girlfriend.
2. Start working out and getting in shape. Let her improve your wardrobe and pick out things that look good on you. Have her play as big a role in your self-improvement plan as possible.
3. Start going out and having fun with other women. The more fun you have, the better this will work.
4. She will feel responsible for your scoring with other women, leading to regret. Eventually, she will be writhing with jealousy.
I know, it's a horrible mind game. But it works.