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Thread: advice needed on interacting with fellow entertainers

Aleyo
Mon Jan 03, 2005 2:15 pm
#1

FWIW, and I don't know how applicable this will be to you, as I don't know if you'd want to do this, but whenever I enter the cantina on my server, I announce myself like I'm the life of the party, and the party can start cause I got there. As a result, I almost always get greeted in return and have conversations start up. I'm not sure what would happen if I came in without saying anything, but I'd hope that they'd do the same because they're used to it.




Scipionus Mentus
Master Musician, Master Entertainer, Master Dancer - Tempest
-I support ATK people and playstyles.

"Only a Sith deals in absolutes."

Warryyr
Mon Jan 03, 2005 2:43 pm
#2






Else-Whira wrote:

A lot of that comes from the fact that new players learn from websites like these, third party sites and from the playerbase at large. As it stands right now... How are entertainers viewed? Basically in most players minds anyone dancing or playing music is AFK. If I don't imediately greet everyone who comes through the door or reply instantly to anyone that even speaks in my immediate area I get lines like, "stupid AFKer" or "i guess no one is here to invite me to else grp". It sucks that this is the way things are, but no one seems to be interested in actively changing the sterotype.





I think I'm just going to start playing in Coronet cantina everyday after work for 3 hours, all the while yelling constantly, "I'm not AFK, all Entertainers aren't AFK, come say hi and relax. No talking required. No chit chat needed. Conversations always appreciated."


Just wanted to say I'm one who finds the stereotype to be very old and must be shattered. I'm so darn sick of it.


Ikewe
Mon Jan 03, 2005 2:54 pm
#3

Sci,


I have even tried that approach as well. Still got nothing... no smirk, no wave, no eye roll, nada.For a while I even took the time to send each of them an email indicating I had come to the cantina to heal and tip but had decided to heal my own BF given the lack of response. But it's looking more and more like I'm just going to have to accept that this is a new "style".


Cheers,

Ikewe, Master Dancer Shadowfire



Ikewe, Master Dancer, Shadowfire
When you wish upon a falling star, your dreams can come true. Unless it's really a meteorite hurtling to the Earth which will destroy all life. Then you're pretty much hosed no matter what you wish for. Unless it's death by meteor.


Maisland
Mon Jan 03, 2005 3:06 pm
#4

I don't know what server you are on, but for myself, if I am in a cantina performing, I try to /greet as many people as I can... regardless of what their profession may be.



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I can not survive the NGE


kirah_ashlin
Mon Jan 03, 2005 4:19 pm
#5


Well, to be honest, I've seen it from both sides. I'll walk into a cantina (whether on Bria as a master dancer or on Chilastra as a choreographer) and often get no response from the very people who are dancing and playing music and spatialing out loud to each other! When I set up near the steps and start taking away their business (xp and tips)by being friendly and chatty with the patrons, they quickly take note of me. On the other hand, I couldn't count the number of master dancers, musicians and entertainers I've seen walk into a cantina only to return my greetings with cold silence - regardless of what title I have up at the time. And I'm not just talking about bots, either.


The social professions are quickly becoming anti-social, I fear.
Schardour
Mon Jan 03, 2005 5:20 pm
#6






Ikewe wrote:

Sci,


I have even tried that approach as well. Still got nothing... no smirk, no wave, no eye roll, nada.





Scip, I think this only works for those of us guysthat can back up the claim


*ducks away fromIkewe*




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bawler14
Mon Jan 03, 2005 8:30 pm
#7

Ultimately, they are several types of ATKentertainers in a given cantina...



1. Those who come to spend time with peers. ("Social Butterfly" These individuals don't cater to patrons, but are rather there to have a good time, especially with their fellow entertainers.)


2. Those who come to entertain patrons. ("Pure Business" These individualswill launch into conversation with any patron, in hopes of better tips, but often regard other entertainers as competition rather then peers.)


3. Those who come to spend time in the cantina atmosphere. ("Lurker" These entertainers are often shy. They'd often rather observe chat, then take an active part in it.)



Entertainers are not limited to one type, but rather may be a combination of two or three types. Prior to AFK's the social atmospheres of cantinas caused most entertainers to lean heavily towards category one. This trait is still present in a large amount of veteran entertainers. However, with the coming of AFK's veterans ents found the cantina's weren't as lively as before and many began to spend less and less time in them. Those who stayed turned to group chat, guild chat, chat channels and tells for their social outlets. This has adversely affected new entertainers in the sense that they have leveled to master in an enviorment that in no way promotes entertainer to entertainer interaction. Newer players tend to lean more towards categories two and three nowadays, if they have not succumbed to AFK'ing.


For those who remain ATK,spatial chat can oftenbe daunting to follow, without practice andones full attention. From emotes to spam,most players, especially newer ones have trouble keepingup.The condition that the social atmosphere of cantinas has decayed to, has convinced many watching spatial isn't worth the effort, when it is ten times easier to converse in group, guild, chat channelsor tells.


However, as rampant as this problem has become, hope is not lost.


Veterans need to spend time in the cantinas again, not for the experience or for the tips, but rather to teach new entertainers what it means to entertain and just how fun entertaining can be.Takenew entertainers to parties, and gatherings. Get them in guilds or on the chat channels.


Bring friends and fellow veteran entertainers to cantinas. Players will often join in and open up in a more friendly enviorment. A group of entertainers having a great time is much more enticing and less intimidatingthena loneentertainerattempting to be the life of the party.


Take small steps, send tells or greet people by name. Try to get the attention of one entertainer at a time. Join conversations that are already going. Use emotes to attract attention. Work on opening up one individual, rather then generally addressing the entire group.


P.S. Keep in mind that just because there is no AFK tag doesn't mean a player isn't AFK.




                        /  \/  \                           
/| 0 0 | \

+----------------.oooO--| / | --Oooo.-------------------+
| Doasa Arsim \_-_/ Events Coordinator |
| Master Musician .oooO Oooo. Master Entertainer |
| Fifth River Cantina( ) ( ) Four Rivers, Correlia|
+---------------------\ (-----) /-------------------------+
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Ikewe
Mon Jan 03, 2005 8:46 pm
#8






Schardour wrote:


Scip, I think this only works for those of us guysthat can back up the claim


*ducks away fromIkewe*





No more cookies for you young man!


but hugs anyway,


Ikewe, Master Dancer Shadowfire





Ikewe, Master Dancer, Shadowfire
When you wish upon a falling star, your dreams can come true. Unless it's really a meteorite hurtling to the Earth which will destroy all life. Then you're pretty much hosed no matter what you wish for. Unless it's death by meteor.


Aleyo
Mon Jan 03, 2005 11:01 pm
#9



Schardour wrote:


Ikewe wrote:
Sci,
I have even tried that approach as well. Still got nothing... no smirk, no wave, no eye roll, nada.


Scip, I think this only works for those of us guys that can back up the claim
*ducks away from Ikewe*




Well, to be honest, although I have my good days, I can't generally back up the claim all the time . I just fake it though, and I seem to be able to fool some of the people all of the time, and the rest of the people some of the time .




Scipionus Mentus
Master Musician, Master Entertainer, Master Dancer - Tempest
-I support ATK people and playstyles.

"Only a Sith deals in absolutes."

Aynianu
Mon Jan 03, 2005 11:16 pm
#10






bawler14 wrote:

Ultimately, they are several types of ATKentertainers in a given cantina...


1. Those who come to spend time with peers. ("Social Butterfly" These individuals don't cater to patrons, but are rather there to have a good time, especially with their fellow entertainers.)


2. Those who come to entertain patrons. ("Pure Business" These individualswill launch into conversation with any patron, in hopes of better tips, but often regard other entertainers as competition rather then peers.)


3. Those who come to spend time in the cantina atmosphere. ("Lurker" These entertainers are often shy. They'd often rather observe chat, then take an active part in it.)



Entertainers are not limited to one type, but rather may be a combination of two or three types. Prior to AFK's the social atmospheres of cantinas caused most entertainers to lean heavily towards category one. This trait is still present in a large amount of veteran entertainers. However, with the coming of AFK's veterans ents found the cantina's weren't as lively as before and many began to spend less and less time in them. Those who stayed turned to group chat, guild chat, chat channels and tells for their social outlets. This has adversely affected new entertainers in the sense that they have leveled to master in an enviorment that in no way promotes entertainer to entertainer interaction. Newer players tend to lean more towards categories two and three nowadays, if they have not succumbed to AFK'ing.


For those who remain ATK,spatial chat can oftenbe daunting to follow, without practice andones full attention. From emotes to spam,most players, especially newer ones have trouble keepingup.The condition that the social atmosphere of cantinas has decayed to, has convinced many watching spatial isn't worth the effort, when it is ten times easier to converse in group, guild, chat channelsor tells.


However, as rampant as this problem has become, hope is not lost.


Veterans need to spend time in the cantinas again, not for the experience or for the tips, but rather to teach new entertainers what it means to entertain and just how fun entertaining can be.Takenew entertainers to parties, and gatherings. Get them in guilds or on the chat channels.


Bring friends and fellow veteran entertainers to cantinas. Players will often join in and open up in a more friendly enviorment. A group of entertainers having a great time is much more enticing and less intimidatingthena loneentertainerattempting to be the life of the party.


Take small steps, send tells or greet people by name. Try to get the attention of one entertainer at a time. Join conversations that are already going. Use emotes to attract attention. Work on opening up one individual, rather then generally addressing the entire group.


P.S. Keep in mind that just because there is no AFK tag doesn't mean a player isn't AFK.








Good post

have to admit when i play my dancer im 'social butterfly'.

Generally i walk into mos eisley cantina and just say hello to everyone and start dancing, then aslong as im chatting, either in spatial or in group once/if i join one, i dont really mind, people may think im afk sometimes simply because im talking in group, but that doesnt really bother me, i have 'LIVE entertainer' in my bio, they only need to talk to me to find out if im there.

If i run out of people who talk back then i tend to just log. Im looking forward to when they remove afk dancing/music, should make cantina's a more enjoyable place.

Ikewe
Tue Jan 04, 2005 1:09 am
#11

I have noticed a trend on my server that has begun to really really irritate me. So I thought I'd ask any of you that may have also encountered this for some advice. Please feel free to send advice via PM or ingame email if for whatever reason you do not wish to post here.


Here's my problem:


I try to keep my Master Dancer title on at all times. I have noticed that frequently when I walk into a cantina with my title on, the other entertainers do not greet me - with the expection of those who I frequently perform with or who I converse with in the ent chat channel. Now sometimes it's pretty obvious that the entire group are not actually present.But at other times I see clear evidence that they are indeed "there". They'll even greet combat patrons who enter right afterme. If I move to the side and start dancing and greeting patrons, I'll instantly get an invite window - no conversation or emote of any kind just the invite window. Now maybe I'm just being overly sensitive about this whole thing. But it's gotten to the point where I will not accept the invite and will just say in spatial that I "don't plan on staying long but thanks for the invite." I thought at first maybe it was the dancer tag so for a while I would turn it off before entering the cantina. Then I thought it might be that they were just tired and slow to interact so I would try to start things off with a "hello how's everyone doing today" kind of thing. But neither of those have made any difference. It just seems like so many entertainers have forgotten how to be friendly. Is there a way to encourage them to snap out of it and act/interact as a community? Is this just a difference in playstyle that I need to learn to accept?


Cheers,

Ikewe, Master Dancer Shadowfire



Ikewe, Master Dancer, Shadowfire
When you wish upon a falling star, your dreams can come true. Unless it's really a meteorite hurtling to the Earth which will destroy all life. Then you're pretty much hosed no matter what you wish for. Unless it's death by meteor.


Else-Whira
Tue Jan 04, 2005 1:35 am
#12

I think it's a couple of things... 1) People often times really don't pay attention to spatial. They look up occaisionally or maybe even wait for a tell before they acknowledge spatial. 2) I think a lot of entertainers in training really DON'T know that master dancers and musicians aren't all buffbots or combat players that have the title up as a way to hide combat prowess.

A lot of that comes from the fact that new players learn from websites like these, third party sites and from the playerbase at large. As it stands right now... How are entertainers viewed? Basically in most players minds anyone dancing or playing music is AFK. If I don't imediately greet everyone who comes through the door or reply instantly to anyone that even speaks in my immediate area I get lines like, "stupid AFKer" or "i guess no one is here to invite me to else grp". It sucks that this is the way things are, but no one seems to be interested in actively changing the sterotype.

I do my best through role play both here on the various forums and in game, but I am only human. I can't always type fast enough or drop from a heated conversation to appear instantly ATK whenever someone enters the cantina.

Even here on these boards it seems like we are more interested in debating whether or not AFK is good for the game rather than actively writing about good things that come from playing at the keys. I think perhaps if as much effort went into detailing and reporting POSITIVE at the key experiences and rewards as went into debating the validity of AFK... We would see at least a little improvement in the attitude of new players and players new to the idea of WANTING to entertain.





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Groovymarlin
Tue Jan 04, 2005 1:42 am
#13

Honestly Ikewe, what you describe sounds pretty normal to me. When I go into a cantina, the entertainers who know me greet me, otherwise they continue with what they're doing. If I start dancing, I'll get an invite. Sometimes an enterprising GL will send me a tell first, asking if I want the invite or not.



La'lepa Ofo

Master Dancer :: Master Swordswoman :: Force Sensitive
AFKing is not entertaining - support real entertainers

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